If you’re reading this right now, you’ll know all too well that it’s time to learn to assert yourself and to finally cut ties with those who bring you down. If you hear the term “toxic” and someone you know immediately comes to mind, it’s possible that you’re involved in some unhealthy connections that need to be reevaluated.
Relationships that have become poisonous have the capacity to be very destructive to your health, so you need to do your best to rid these from your life. Toxic energy just brings you down.
Friendships like that are certainly not actually based on friendship because there is only jealousy and even hatred as a basis. Therefore, if you even SUSPECT that someone in your friendship group or who is around your life right now is toxic, you need to ditch them ASAP!
It’s easier said than done, so we’ll ask the angels for wisdom and guidance using the Indigo Angels Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue.
“What Signs Do I Need to Look For?”
It’s crucial for you to consider the way certain people in your life interact with you because it’s not healthy when you think about it. Toxic connections may be eliminated if you realize which people in your life fit that description.
You might want to think about whether or not any of the following rings a bell:
- the other person or persons surrounding you are draining your energy;
- you’re fed up with somebody’s constant inconsistency, and you don’t think you can depend on them;
- there is more negativity than positivity in the connection you share;
- they have a habit of making you feel uneasy, mistreated, or ridiculed and you can’t be yourself with them.
If you have thought about it and you recognize these traits in people you know, even if they’re family, you need to move on from them. You cannot allow yourself to be disrespected for one more minute nor can you let people run you down like this because you are worth so much more than that.
“How Should I Proceed?”
If you follow these instructions, you’ll soon be free of the burdensome effects of unhealthy relationships and be well on your road to a more joyful, carefree existence.
First, believe in yourself. Know that you deserve only good things as you figure out who among your loved ones may be harmful.
The second step is to define your limits so you can put certain restrictions in place. Your boundaries should be as strict or as relaxed as the situation calls for. If you can no longer function well because of this poisonous connection, you may wish to end it instantly.
If you are focusing on mending the connection or ending it on amicable terms, though, it is important to establish ground rules and keep to them. You’ll regain control, self-worth, self-belief, and be able to interact with them whenever you choose.
Bear in mind that people who are toxic typically fight back. They enjoy confrontation. Call upon Archangel Michael to help you cut these ties and shield you from retaliation.
Take pride in yourself and never forget how valuable you are. Don’t stray beyond your boundaries. If you don’t want to communicate with them, you don’t have to.
It’s not easy to cut ties with negative individuals. Find positive people to spend time with and let them inspire you. Don’t be afraid to put your trust in the people who care about you and encourage you the most.
Once you move on from toxic, negative people it’s crucial for you to fill your life with positive friendships with people who inspire you. Ask the angels to lead you to the people who would make your life so much better. Give out that amazing energy of yours and you’ll get so much back in return.
Enjoy this new phase of your life because it will be free of complications as well as filled with love and laughter.
Now that you know the signs of utterly toxic connections in your life, you can be better placed to help others who are currently stuck in similar situations. Your angels wish you to know that you have their blessings today and always
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 26, 2022
“As soon as we awaken, we can say: “Lord, I thank you and I offer this day to you”… Then, before an activity, we can repeat, “Come, Holy Spirit”. Between one thing and another, we can pray thus, “Jesus, I trust in you. Jesus, I love you”. Really short prayers that help us stay in contact with the Lord. How often we send instant messages to the people we love! Let’s do this with the Lord as well so that our hearts remain connected to him. And let’s not forget to read his responses. The Lord always responds. Where do we find them? In the Gospel which should always be kept at hand and should be opened several times every day, to receive a Word of life directed to us… May the Virgin Mary, faithful listener, teach us the art of praying always, without losing heart.”
Pope Francis
The Vibrant Channeled Creator 